BE A GREAT TEACHER FOR YOUR CHILD

Dr. Wendy Ghiora – September 24 – Posting #97

Parents have the privilege of sharing the richness this world has to offer with their children. This gives you the opportunity to be a great teacher for your child. Make talking with your child about life's everyday experiences a part of your normal routine. This will help each of you understand the others' viewpoints, values, dreams, and interests. Remember not only to talk, but also listen to your children.

Some parents consider activities such as going to museums, the zoo, or shows make up for lost time with their children. Actually, there is plenty of educational value in everyday activities, such as going to the post office, going to the bank, going grocery shopping, or doing a project at home. Parents just need to plan ahead a little to help their child discover the world.

Here are some ideas for activities to enjoy with your child:

•Watch news and documentaries on TV. (Discuss questions or interests aroused in your child)
•Rent or buy educational videos. (Encourage newly developed curiosity sparked by these videos)
•Visit natural history museums, science museums, art museums, children's museums, zoos, botanical gardens, and historical sites. (See what interests your child, and point out things that interest you)
•Experience national or state parks and forests. Sign up for a tour.
•Read articles in the newspaper, news, and magazines together.
•Go to the public library.
•Make vacations learning experiences.
•Plan "theme" parties that involve some research. For example, an American Revolution costume party, a play, or a display of inventions of the time.

The important thing for parents to remember is that they are the most important teachers in their child's life. Children are born eager learners, but parents need to help them channel that learning. Talking with children before, during, and after any activity helps them learn the steps involved in learning.

This conversation also will improve your communication and in turn, your relationship with your child. The more you talk with each other, the more rewarding your conversations will be, and the better you will get to know your child. Your child will reap the rewards of having a great teacher in you.